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My uni studies STOPPED me biting my nails!
I've been enjoying long, beautiful nails for 30 years, thanks to a method called behaviour modification! I was required to do it as part of a psychology unit at university. It is a method which rewards good behaviour and punishes bad behaviour. This is the method:
- You determine what you want to change: I want to stop biting my fingernails.
- You determine what would be a good reward. I will give myself $1.00 coin.
- You determine what would be a good punishment. I will give $2.00 to charity. Note: It is best that the punishment is worse than the reward, so you can obviously achieve your positive goal ASAP. The simpler your rewards and punishments are, the better. I used the money to purchase a scarf but you could do it for anything.
- You work out what you need to motivate yourself to achieve that positive outcome. I used hand cream daily, I used oil to massage the cuticles daily, I painted my nails with nail hardener and once the nails grew past my fingers, I got manicures regularly.
- Draw up a table as shown below, to keep track of your progress daily to get to your eventual goal:
Day 1 – Outcome: I put my fingers in my mouth So you put a cross in the negative box and take the punishment. Negative Positive Punishment Reward x $2.00 paid to charity
Day 2 – Outcome: I didn’t put my fingers in my mouth So you put a cross in the positive box and take the reward Negative Positive Punishment Reward x $1.00 paid to myself
From memory I stopped biting my nails after the second week and kept going until I grew my nails to the length I wanted them. I found that it took about 10 weeks to achieve the outcome I wanted. I didn’t think I would get long fingernails, but I did and continue to do so!
By: Heather B 3 responses in the members' forumNo need for takeaways with home 'auto replen' system
I have finally found a grocery system that works for me! My husband calls it 'auto replen' grocery shopping. First, I buy discounted Woolworths e-gift cards from the Entertainment Book (saving 5%). Then, having downloaded the Woolworths app on to my phone, I purchase a delivery saver, $50 for three months of deliveries. This works out about $2 per delivery for us.
Whenever we run out of something, or it is getting low, I add it to my shopping list on my phone. Once we reach $100, I then purchase the groceries. Woolworths has the same prices in store as online and the same specials. I have found this reduces takeaway significantly, as we order 2-3 times per week (I have three adults and three children in my household, plus frequently two to four young children or teenage guests. If we want something in particular, we need only wait one day for it.
We liken it to the automatic replenishment system that the larger department stores have. It works for them and it works for us too!
By: LLNOE 7 responses in the members' forumHottest Hints
$2 dinner nights
I am saving around $100 a month on my grocery bills, thanks to a few simple changes to our family meals. I wanted to reduce our food bill and after some thought came up with the idea of making two nights per week a '$2 Dinner Night'. For example, one night we will have something like toasted baked bean sandwiches or stuffed baked potatoes; the other I use up all the leftover vegetables in the fridge to make a self-crusting quiche. This reduces the amount of food we waste and the kids love it. Even the simplest meals can be delicious and filling and the savings we are making from our twice-weekly $2 dinners are well worth it!
By: Wendy Mckenzie 207 responses in the members' forumGarage sales changed my life
We are retirees. We eat well, dress well, and live in a modern house, with an interesting flower and vegetable garden. Our income would probably be classed as poverty level, but we live like kings, because we have one shared vice. We are garage sale fanatics. Little in the house has been bought new. Older furniture has been restored, as my husband has clever hands. Once a year he sells the surplus at a huge garage sale, and it usually pays for a holiday.
We buy books, linen, furniture, new clothing, garden plants, sewing material and cottons, timber for building toy boxes and hall stands at garage sales. Our kitchen TV cost $25. The little one in the bedroom is 25 years old, so I bought a video recorder for $5.00 and can now get all the channels through the video. My three telephones and the answering machine are all from garage sales, as are my kitchen crockery, blankets and the beautiful satin embroidered bedspread that cost $5.00.
I am like a centipede with shoes as I buy good brands that have been tried on in the shop and are as new. It is the only place I can find the good comfortable shoes I favour. Likewise, many of my clothes are top brands. I bought a $168 pant suit for $10 because the lady's husband didn't like the colour.
The deep freeze, the two coolers, bed lights, beautiful big mats are all from our Saturday morning treks. We list the sales and use a street map to plan a route to save petrol.
Sometimes tinned food or home-made sauces are available, and if the vendors have fruit trees they sometimes sell the fruit by the plastic bag - picked yourself.
Nothing is sacred at garage sales, and provided you need the items there are some real bargains.
How about our home security system for $2.00, because the seller couldn't work it? A little investigation on the Net yielded full instructions.
My computer came from a government auction at one-third of the price quoted for a second-hand model at our local shop. Needed a bit of study to set it up, but I love puzzles, and so had it running with the Windows 98 program I bought for $10. I also keep the grandkids in Playstation games, and my daughter has been married for 20 years and has never bought any linen as I have kept her supplied with good quality buys.
My hobby started after my divorce when I found myself with an old 50's house to renovate and little furniture. So I started to buy 50's vintage furniture as well as renovating materials - paint, wallpaper, timber, doors, curtains.
Along the way I met a widower with the same ideas, so garage sales have provided a lot of rewards - a good life, enough money to enjoy ourselves, and a multitude of associated hobbies and friends.
By: Pat Claney 10 responses in the members' forumReceive a Free Newsletter